Although February is recognized as Black History month, at EbonyDo we recognize the African-Americans each day. We feel strongly that this month should be celebrated by everyone. So, the intent of this article is to highlight what this month means to us and how we all can participate.
EbonyDo’s 5 talking points for February.
Point #1 – Don’t misinterpret the meaning
If you’re a white person and reading this, understand that this month and anytime diversity and equality is mentioned, that does not mean anti-white. We can all live peacefully in this country and everyone can have a share of the American Dream. Yes, there is inequality and it’s each of our responsibility to speak out on it when it’s done. The same way everyone is expected to speak out about sexual harassment.
Point #2 – Lesson learned from other races
Many years ago, a friend from India told me that the civil rights movement wasn’t just about equality for African-Americans. Instead it was for every person who were oppressed and forbidden the opportunity have the same rights as white people. He said, “If it wasn’t for the civil rights movement, I would not had been able to come to American and study.” Not only was this true, but it made me feel a bit empowered to understand that people who look like me were fighting for a cause that exceeded my race. Yes, this included white women as well.
Point #3 – Effective dialogue
If you’re an African-American reading this, get to know someone who is different from you and have a peaceful dialogue about the history of your family. It’s so important to share our own personal stories and be open to questions. Realize that some people don’t know and want to ask burning questions. No, this doesn’t mean that person is racist, but they’re seeking a level of understanding that they’ve been fearful of asking in the past.
Point #4 – No, we will not get over it
Everyone realize that African-Americans will not get over slavery and racsim and how it has (and still) effects us. The same way Jewish people will never forget about the Holocaust. Also, don’t expect every black person to be like Oprah. (e.g. Oprah made it, so you should be able to make it. Stop complaining.) My response to such a statement is, “Bill Gates made it, so why can’t you). The problem with that statement is that people fail to realize that we all have our own experiences and just because we look the same, doesn’t mean that we all bounce back the same.
Point #5 – Can we all get along
We can all co-exist. However, if you prefer to be locked out and in a corner with ugly beliefs, that’s your choice. I found during my short time on earth, there’s a person or group for everyone. While I disagree with any type of hatred, I’m overwhelmed with joy by the progress that has been made and I know that the world is moving in a direction where people are embraced regardless of the color of their skin.
In closing, our goal for this month is to highlight African-Americans by writing articles on the Top 5 takeaways for each person. We hope you embrace this series on Black History month and let us know what you think.
(Our IG will still be lit with pictures, so spread the word.)